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It's easy for me to understand "the other side" because I live in a rural part of a red state, where Democrats are scarce on the ground. The Other Side tells me exactly what they think. One person told me that she's a Republican "because of black people." It doesn't get much clearer than that, but weirdly, at first I was confused. Eventually I figured out she meant, "Because I don't like black people and Democrats do."

When Obama was first running for President, my neighbors told me that Obama was a "Mohammed" and a Marxist, and that he would turn off the electric power if elected. When I offered to fact-check that online, my neighbor said I didn't need to, because she was going to believe whatever the people at her church said, regardless of its factuality. She also told me that school children in California were forced to take Muslim names and perform Muslim rituals at school.

During the pandemic, my neighbors told me that Covid was a hoax invented "to keep people from working." It was not clear why "they" wanted to keep people from working. I guess because "they" are bad.

During the 2020 election year, I interviewed some Q-Anon people in my town. I asked them why they were demonstrating in front of the Goodwill Store. (Yes, that is their preferred site.) They said because they had to save America. When I asked from what, their leader came over and shoo'ed me away. So I never found out who or what was going to take America away from them. But I can guess.

In the last five years, the amount of gunfire in my neighborhood has increased dramatically. Men go out in their backyards and fire away at paper targets on pieces of plywood, for an hour or two, in the afternoon on nice days. One guy evidently has a bump stock because he sounds as if he's shooting a machine gun. In light of this, I have just stopped talking about politics altogether with my neighbors. I don't ask and I don't tell. I do have a Biden sticker on the truck I take to the dump, but that is all. My neighbor's bedraggled 2020 Trump sign is still in her front yard.

Stay safe, y'all.

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Ruth's avatar

Wow! Thank you for this piece and all your links. We need more voices like yours.

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